How to File a Restraining Order Against Your Roommate? In BC - Zukerman Law

How to File a Restraining Order Against Your Roommate?

Living with a roommate can be a great way to share expenses and create a fun living environment. But what happens when that ideal situation turns sour? If your roommate becomes threatening, violent, or exhibits stalking behavior, your safety becomes the top priority.
This blog post will explore the legal option of obtaining a restraining order against a roommate. We’ll discuss the situations that warrant such a step, the process of filing, and the importance of seeking legal guidance (from Zukerman Law Group) throughout this challenging experience. Remember, prioritizing your safety is crucial, and legal action can provide the protection you deserve.

Signs You Might Need a Restraining Order

Signs You Might Need a Restraining Order

No one deserves to feel unsafe in their own home. Sharing an apartment with a roommate can be a fantastic experience, but unfortunately, it doesn’t always work out. If your living situation with a roommate has become threatening or frightening, it’s important to understand your options. Here are some key signs that a restraining order against your roommate might be necessary:

Threats of Violence

This includes verbal threats, written threats, or any actions that make you fear for your physical safety.

Physical Violence

If your roommate has already become physically violent with you, a restraining order is a crucial step to protect yourself.

Stalking Behavior

Does your roommate follow you, show up uninvited at places you frequent, or constantly monitor your movements? This behavior can be a precursor to violence and warrants legal action.

Destruction of Property

Damaging your belongings or shared areas out of anger or intimidation can be a sign of escalating behavior.

Invasion of Privacy

If your roommate is constantly going through your belongings, reading your private messages, or otherwise violating your privacy, it can create a dangerous situation.

Unwanted Sexual Advances

This includes any form of sexual harassment or assault.


Persistent and unwanted behavior that causes fear or distress can constitute harassment. This could include repeated phone calls, texts, or showing up uninvited at your workplace or other locations.

Steps to File a Restraining Order Against Your Roommate

Steps to File a Restraining Order Against Your Roommate

Filing a restraining order against your roommate typically involves several important steps to ensure legal validity and protection. Here’s a general guide on how to proceed:

Understand the Basis for the Restraining Order

Ensure that the behavior of your roommate meets the legal criteria for a restraining order. Typically, this involves demonstrating that your roommate has engaged in threatening, harassing, or abusive behavior towards you.

Gather Evidence

Collect any evidence that supports your case. This can include text messages, emails, photographs, witness statements, or records of incidents (dates, times, descriptions).

Review State Laws

Research the specific laws and procedures regarding restraining orders in your state or jurisdiction. Laws can vary, so it’s important to understand the requirements and forms needed.

Obtain the Necessary Forms

Contact your local courthouse or visit their website to obtain the appropriate forms for filing a restraining order. These forms may also be available online through state government websites.

Complete the Forms

Fill out the forms accurately and completely. Provide detailed information about the incidents that led you to seek a restraining order.

File the Forms

Take the completed forms to the courthouse in the county where you or your roommate resides. Submit the forms to the clerk’s office. There may be filing fees, but fee waivers might be available based on your financial situation.

Review by a Judge

A judge will review your application for the restraining order. Be prepared to answer any questions the judge may have about your case.

Temporary Restraining Order (TRO)

If the judge determines that your situation warrants immediate protection, they may issue a temporary restraining order (TRO). This order will provide you with immediate protection until a hearing can be scheduled.

Serve the Roommate

The roommate must be officially served with the restraining order paperwork. This is typically done by a law enforcement officer or a process server.

Attend the Hearing

A hearing will be scheduled where you and your roommate can present evidence and testimony. The judge will decide whether to grant a longer-term restraining order.

Final Restraining Order

If the judge grants your request, a final restraining order will be issued. This order will outline the specific terms and conditions of the restraining order, such as staying away from you and/or your residence.

Follow Up and Comply

Once the restraining order is granted, make sure to keep a copy with you at all times. If your roommate violates the restraining order, contact law enforcement immediately.

Empower Your Legal Journey with Zukerman Law Group

Facing a roommate dispute can be stressful and confusing. To effectively defend your rights and navigate the legal process, securing professional legal guidance is essential.
Zukerman Law Group can empower you on this legal journey, providing the knowledge and support you need to achieve a positive outcome. Contact our professional lawyers immediately to learn how they can help protect your rights.


Filing a restraining order against your roommate is a serious legal process that requires careful preparation and adherence to specific procedures. Seeking legal advice, documenting incidents, gathering evidence, completing required forms accurately, and filing with the appropriate court are essential steps in ensuring that your restraining order application is effective. Remember to prioritize your safety and well-being throughout this process, and consider reaching out to legal professionals like Zukerman Law Group for assistance and support.


Can I be around someone I have a restraining order against?

Absolutely not. Being around someone you have a restraining order against is a violation of the order and could put you in danger. The order exists to keep you safe, and any contact with the person could be seen as a threat.

How long do you go to jail for violating a restraining order?

Violation of a protective order is a misdemeanor offense punishable by up to one year in county jail, a fine of up to $1,000, or both.

Why would you get a Civil Protection Order Against Your Roommate – or Vice Versa?

If you and your roommate are physically fighting or threats have been made, you probably need a protective order because living together does not sound like a good idea.

How do I fight a false restraining order?

Consult with a family law lawyer who has experience defending clients against false restraining orders. You must go to court for the final restraining order hearing and present your evidence proving why the accusations against you are false. Police records, witness statements, emails, and/or texts can all be used as evidence.


Stuart Zukerman

Stuart Zukerman, a graduate of the University of British Columbia, has over 32 years of experience in litigation with a focus on Family Law, Personal Injury, Wrongful Dismissal claims, and Collaborative Divorce & Mediation. He has extensive trial experience in divorce, child custody, spousal support, asset division, and ICBC injury claims. As an accredited Family Law Mediator, he helps resolve disputes without court intervention. Stuart has also authored papers on family law and lectured at CLE courses.